My position on A.A is simple. If it is helping you, stay with it.
For me, it wasn’t helpful. I did not mesh with it. But hey, everyone is different right? Don’t feel like just because you went to A.A and relapsed that you simply weren’t doing it right. Also don’t think you are just someone who is doomed to drinking forever. Again… it works some and doesn’t for others. There isn’t a monopoly on quitting drinking. Keep looking for the solution you agree with.