I know horrible things happen.. family dies … jobs are lost. Major things take place. But lets be real. Even though drinking will make you feel better today for a little while, it will only make a bad situation even worse. It is time to stop hiding from reality and start taking it head on. Once you start dealing with reality, it will become easier. You will have your life together and will know what to expect. When an unexpected situation happens, you will still have the life experience to get through it in a healthy way.